This happened 7 months ago. I work a not high paying but decent job and picked up a second job. He thinks I’m working for extra money to buy a new car. He left his email logged in on my laptop & I saw an ongoing conversation where a woman was sending him naked pictures talking about hooking up again, he agreed and made a date to pick her up a week from when she sent that email! I opened it because the subject was NSA fuck (no strings attached) the kicker? He found her on CL. Privately, I got tested, no STD’s. I stopped having sex with him but one month after I found the emails. Once I got the second job I used being too tired as an excuse so he wouldn’t think I found out.
But we used condoms cause I told him I stopped taking birth control. So I’m clean. Now I have more than enough money saved up to move out! It’s been so hard holding back tears and looking him in the eye but over the last few months I have fell completely out of love with him. I put in my two weeks notice at my second job, I have suitcases in my trunk. Once the day comes and he’s at work I am packing all my shit and leaving my ring on the dresser.
I deactivated fb last month but I blocked him before I did, im gonna block his phone number & Instagram account as well. I have spent months putting this plan together. I can’t wait to leave him confused and thrown off.
Signed-the sad but soon to be single girl!!!!!!!
EDIT-hey guys, just wanna say that I’m NOT gonna leave a print out of his email when I leave and I’m not gonna sell my engagement ring. I’m 24 years old, I don’t do stuff for revenge and I don’t wanna spite him. He’ll just be left blindsided by his actions. I’ll post an update after I move to keep you guys informed for the ones asking. I feel so liberated and free and thank you for all your well wishes it means alot